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3.4.2026
22:05
My Sunday was sad but
The day before was a sadder day.
19:33
Since the release of the orange IPhone 17, I’m sure that there is an increased demand for “orange” cases.
I can bet my virtual poker chips on that.
I can imagine some people be like: Ooh, orange is the new me; Oh orange isn’t that bad at all, I like it.
And so, the question is, what came first: the preference of the individual or the learned preference…
What a shit show..
24.3.2026
12:11
Current criteria for men to even get noticed, the 3 6’s
6 feet tall,
6 figure salary,
6 inch meat loaf.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZfEvx4-7SE
13:54
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RA7tLTZltKI
You can see in this interview, you can see it kinda clearly, that capitalism is one of the reasons for every human connection issue… The way the system mistreats the people that are in it is really showing… The way the system treats people results in the way people treat each other. If people were put above profits, I think that will fundamentally shift everything. But because now there is a concept of money making more money, we forgot that it’s actually the people who make, move and exchange that money. Rich people can still be rich, no issue there, but the way people are treated, stagnant salaries, restricted working hours / flexibility, etc, etc. Hoping for the best…
It’s not that capitalism is bad, it’s just when you take it for granted, you forget what’s humanity and life is all about. Will hopefully write about this later.
Incentives are a big thing, designing a system where the incentives are different than the current ones. A system which is designed to bring the best of us… it’s like a system that punishes the worst of us, which we already have, but now it’s time for the other side of the coin.
16:35
There is something to be remembered in Victor from Arcane, he do be spittin’ bars:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCuGjNHDN9c
”I understand now.
The message hidden within the pattern.
The reason for our failures in the commune.
It’s inescapable.
Humanity.
Our very essence.
Our emotions
Rage, compassion, hate.
Two sides of the same coin.
inextricably bound.
That which inspires us to our greatest good
is also the cause of our greatest evil”
and then
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zk09J-aNIFQ
”I thought I could bring an end to the world’s suffering
but when every equation was solved, all the remained were fields of dreamless solitude.
There is no price to perfection, only an end to pursuit.”
17:29
I don’t know what Bonnie Blue is being hated on, but she is legit, I won’t watch her stuff not because she is a “bad” person, but because she isn’t my type.
She isn’t my type therefore no boner, no boner means I can use my prefrontal cortex and just try and understand the person.
But man, she is wise, she owns it and embraces things that most people can’t fucking seemingly understand, I respect her.
Let me help out: https://youtu.be/RA7tLTZltKI?si=bRZwgrtcQgYhUaGj&t=6243
Louise Perry goes: One of the things I’ve noticed when you talk about people, you will be so non-judgmental about men being fat or all the physical stuff. One group though that you are consistently judgmental towards are lazy people. People who don’t work, etc
Bonnie Blue goes: They are the one complaining about life the most! And I think, you lazy shit, get out and do something about it. Unless your arm or legs are chopped off, you can probably get up and do something about it.
That goes for all the people, if they complaining about something, they are the ones that blame everyone else, they are unhappy, they are miserable and take zero responsibility for it.
People who follow her on her socials, and even me glancing through it, she does a lot of ragebait and whatever gather’s reaction, you might be hating her for that, sure but she does what works, what gathers attention and if you fall for it, that’s on you, it’s at the end of the day you who follow her. Blame the system, not her, she just uses the tools for what they were intended for. Spit on Mark Zuckerberg for making it addictive and exploitative towards people’s insecurities and stuff.
She is just a player, she plays the game well, she wins. Good for her, I respect her, I think she is a decent human being, most hating her aren’t. Like those people who take her photos as a young child and making a story up of how she was abused, which she wasn’t. But the audacity to do that in your spare time? and she is the one fucked up?…
I wish her all the best.
18.3.2026
22:44
Pretty young boy with a death wish
Got your mother’s eyes and
Stardust on your lips
You’re so tired of this life
Can i stand in your light?
I just want to be with you
I just want to be with you
You don’t see what i see in you
I just want to be with you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYJYAgsHtWI&list=PLH9i4StMHmQNSdfhdB26KWRM8ujPJO-iN&index=5
18.3.2026
00:04
the whole dating scene be like:
if you have money, i likenyou
if you make me laugh, i like you
hahaha, im jist sitting here being pretty
my syperpowers are eating and sleepong btw
im so happy when im full btw
sapiosexual btw, im so smart too btw, here is my insta.
sizegap pref btw.
- do you know who also likes size gap? pedofiles…
and then you match with that stuff(which is rare because they dont know how to swipe) and it cant express a coherent thought:
k bít, áaaaaa, a lm j? thík wa
positive vibes only…
- I’m positive you’re braindead and that ruined my vibes.
12:00
tôi đã học từ “lớm” từ cái câu: tym iu thầy nhiều lớm, thầy mua cơm cho tym nha.
không thế nào người thầy có thể nói: tym ơi, nói iu thầy đi, thầy mua cơm tói cho tym. Tao đã sửa răng cho mày mà vẫn phải beg you to buy dinner, chết đói.
Chúng ta có nhiều loại thầy.
1 là thầy răng ngựa bên trên, scammer.
2 là thầy Minh Niệm
3 là the legend Thích Nhất Hạnh
and then the thầy farm công đức có tốn mana không: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=2741379682737873
11:51
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLH9i4StMHmQNSdfhdB26KWRM8ujPJO-iN
if someone likes 50% of this, we should be besties for the resties. asap. Sort by date added, newest
16.3.2026
10:30
What is the female version of bromance? siskiss? feminism?
23.2.2026
22:35
It has been a long time since something was added here, mostly things were hidden, who knows if anyone has seen it or not. But one thing is for sure don’t forget this, add stuff, put effort into writing… Not for any reason, just the act, the promise, the idea, the project. It’s not like you are forcing yourself to write because it sounds fancy, but because you have written a lot, use that to understand oneself… keep pinging into the void, spread the crumbs around see who lands here… from now on, more is coming.
20.11.2025
made up story.
A famous man decides to meet a fangirl. He is open minded, gives everyone a chance, but he really dislikes being liked for the status.
They sit and talk, and he can smell her, he can understand what is she doing and why, it’s the typical thing… He goes:
A: did you notice the expression on my face? It’s a sign of disappointment, we won’t work out. It’s a power dynamic, not a sincere interest in another person.
Her eyes widen, something broke, a hope? an expectation?, she has swayed many, how could this time by any different?
But reality hits hard, a rejection is a rejection, no other way to sugar coat it. The ego starts gurgling, from having a crush, now the enemy of the state.
B: You asshole, I knew you were an asshole, I read the forums, the groups, the threads.
A: Look at you now, you could be a magician, seconds ago I was a diamond you wanted, now I’m a glass you see through. Goodbye
1.11.2024
rotting
It’s getting on me… I feel really stuck. The unfulfilled desire is just mentally degrading.
The question is what do I do? Spot isn’t helping… Do I go here, do I go there? If I go and nothing happens? How do I even start things?
29.10.2024
A simple desire
To have someone to talk to, to discuss a difficult topic, to brainstorm ideas / solutions…
No matter the location, it seems like I can’t yet find that, I don’t understand why…
Quality of interaction with people affects quality of life…
24.10.2024
Tell my why…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSgChEB7QIs
19.10.2024
”Do what you love"
"Well the world couldn’t sustain that much baseball players and ballerinas”
sometimes enjoyment comes from competency.
and competency doesn’t happen until you’ve sucked at it for a while.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEHljE3MJhE
Now when survival isn’t a primary objective and comforts are plenty, intelligence or simply put, curiosity and learning and exploring should be the primary objective. But still, we are playing the limbic game of materialism, instead of developing the cortex. Sad but, I hope we get there. if not - whatever, anyway.
Do you know how many summers you will see?
Less than a hundred.
Less than your average life expectancy too since you already missed a few to develop the sensory factory to enjoy “the summer”.
It’s a finite thing, the summers you will see.
Death is a thing that many forget and diligently avoid thinking about.
Why think about it when TikTok can make you laugh, insta can make you jealous, threads can make you poor and a failure.
But at the end, everybody dies. sooner or later.
How would things change if death was your shadow, following you?
how would you treat people?
how would you do things?
what would you even do?
distracted by bullshit so that game can continue.
Nothing to be afraid of
because you gonna fucking die
nothing of this is gonna really matter
cultural push to care about bullshit
distracted by bullshit
because of people really stopped and said: wait a minute I have a finite number of days, and I not gonna spend it being fucking miserable, being a cog in this machine and the purpose of which is not to serve me but some “greater” thing enjoyed only by the top 1%.
marriage and love have nothing to do with each other.
“don’t remember the orgasm, remember the first day I met and how she looked, remember how we did things” ejaculation doesn’t matter, memories and companionship does.
Talking as form of manipulation:
instead of saying:
can we try anal?
say:
A:omg I had this dream last night… so dirty
B: what really, what was it about?
A: nah I don’t wanna say it, I ate diary before bed or something.
B: no, what was it?
A: it was wild and we did anal and this and that
And there could be two reactions which helps you out:
- B: oh no, never, I don’t wanna do that
- A: yeah me neither
OR - B: Oh is it something you would like?
- A: I don’t know, maybe, I didn’t think I will like it maybe subconsciously I do maybe
And now there is a conversation going on, not only a conversation, but a safe one.
turn something awkward into something comfortable.
Manipulation, the art of getting what you want while not being awkward/ intrusive
begs the question, is speech and human interaction mostly for manipulation. It makes me rethink what we “talk” for, and why.
comparison is so weird to me.
On one side “comparison is the thief of joy”
Social media flexing of fake success, beauty, blabla, you do get a bit of that urgh feeling, like am I doing things right kind of thing.
But then on the other side you have
Ah I’m so grateful to have this and that BECAUSE many don’t have that.
He volunteered in a hospice, soon to be dead people.
”I’m listening to the rain sounds and thinking, I’m not dying, at least not like them”
And those dying people in there are nothing more than an object of comparison.
Oh I’m so lucky to have a house and car and wifi and internet and toilet paper and clean water, because kids in Africa are dying of thirst, never knowing what wifi is, sounds a bit too much, no?
I mean, they aren’t explicitly saying that. And you could indeed be grateful about those things without comparing, like the same child in Africa could be grateful that today he got to eat and drink for a bit, and that will be a symbol for perseverance and stuff, but. idk
I am biased here since I live off the idea if comparison is the thief of joy than don’t compare yourself to others since everyone is “unique” and stuff. Everyone is born in different environment and stuff so comparison doesn’t make sense, it’s like comparing apples to mushrooms.
Also this ladder disgusts me:
- the more fortunate people compare themselves to those bellow them to feel better about themselves
- the normal people compare themselves to miserable people
- and the miserable people are the main object of comparison, that’s their worth.
I guess it’s me who somehow associated comparison with gratitude. There is some intermingling between those two because of stupid people who copy what fortunate people do.
Let’s do gratitude without comparison and see if it works. also the word lucky is tricky here, fuck that shit.
I am feeling nice, for the simple fact that I have this cool thinkpad and I enjoy using it.
I am glad I am a lawyer, because first of all I enjoy doing the job, good money, mentally stimulating.
Nah, I’m not sure if gratitude works for me, it’s whatever, maybe because my mental state is shit and so it reflects. I’m barely writing anything but intellectuals like James Sexton made me want to write, his perls of wisdom are worth noting down.
13.10.2024
A: Where is your ass?
B: I don’t have one, I’m Vietnamese
A: Where is your personality
B: I don’t have one, I use TikTok 3 hours per day.
A: What do you like to do?
B: sleep and being taken care of
A: Imma go get myself a bamboo tree, it’s flat like you, but can’t speak.
B: no cooch though
A: Still have my hands, all good.
2.10.2024
A: I want my next soulmate to have VA’s looks and MT’s brain
B: Did you just called your ex stupid and you most memorable date ugly?
A: never said that, but I’m glad you can read minds.
28.9.2024
I don’t have celebrity crushes or that kind of shit, like Henry Cavill is handsome, Scarlet Johansson is not bad, Anne Hathaway is… wow…, Ryan Reynolds is charismatic but goddamn Selena Gomez in her thirties is a goddamn baddie and that’s something important to write down. I did try to text her but she told me to “calm down” in a very creative way
22:02
Who am I kidding, I do have a list of wow:
- Jennifer Connelly
- Anne Hathaway
- Selena Gomez
- Rachel McAddams
- Elizabeth Olsen
Hot takes tho:
- Margot Robbie is meh
- Ana de Harmas is meh meh overliked
- who was that newest one who was liked because of the racks: Capital of Australia + Sweeney
24.9.2024
I guess no more badminton then. You talked the talk, very charming, different even, but at the end you didn’t walk the walk. But I don’t blame you, you have my respects. Wish you well. Remember, nobody is 100% busy, it’s all about priorities and decency.
23.9.2024
WRITE MORE, WRITING ISN’T BAD DUDE, GO TO NHÀ KHO AND TYPE ON THAT FUCKING KEYBOARD. also check some notes on the chonky vault.
23.8.2024
Inflate your tits, deflate your brain.
24.7.2024
thối để thu hút con ruồi, thơm để thu hút phụ nữ.
7.7.2024
I do not understand why such a hot place like Hanoi can have so much snowflaky personalities. Harsh environments create strong people but I guess AC has spoiled most, if not all.
14.7.2023
real people with real lives have no time to make it glamorous on social media, no matter the achievements. Cheers to those who know what is it actually to be alive and to live.
19.4.2023
“Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
-Albert Camus
22.9.2022
Simple request: If you have not ever asked me a question about myself or my life, don’t talk behind my back like you know me. I work in the same place as you, interact with the same people as you, it doesn’t mean you know me better than my mom (even she doesn’t). Applies to everyone, it’s just a matter of simple respect. Life is already difficult enough, let’s not make it more difficult for each other.
25.7.2022
xiên bẩn có vị ung thư.